Yesterday a gift I had ordered for my son came, and IT finally hit me- Christmas spirit. I know, I know, it's sad that something like COMMERCIALISM made me feel the "holiday spirit", but I think it just took this simple gift arriving to jolt me into the fact that it is "the most wonderful time of the year". When I saw that package I started thinking about making cookings with my son (and nieces and nephews), spending time with family and friends, sharing stories and being close with those I love. Though Christmas will definitely be different without Kevin home, I still want it to be as warm and wonderful for Mason as possible. I thought for sure I'd overcompensate with TOO many gifts, but I have stayed within my budget and cannot even THINK of spending another dime on Christmas (I have money set aside for "stuffers", and that is STILL within my budget). I want Mason to experience the joy of the holiday season through being with his family, THAT is what the holidays are truly about for me. Traditions, family, love...those are the things I want him to know are important- not THINGS.
Now, I am not the sort of person who thinks that belongings are evil, or that wanting things is wrong. I AM all for capitalism and such, but I don't want my kid thinking he is ENTITLED to ANYTHING, especially EVERYTHING he (thinks he) wants!
I hope this holiday season finds everyone well and happy!
--Mandi
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